Sunday, 2 April 2017

March Instamonth & Why I've Taken a Step Back from Blogging

I tried to post Instamonth Feb, and all the other posts I'd planned for March but life is happening and I can't keep up. Gahh I have no idea what to write anymore, the words just don't flow like they used to.

Some reasons why I've started to back away from blogging...
  1. My mental health. It's not great. I'm OK, really exhausted, though, just trying to conserve my energy for the things I need to do, like food shopping or clothes washing. 
  2. Real adult life. Like the food shopping and clothes washing, there's always so much that needs doing. I haven't had my car washed in months and it's freaking disgusting. It also needs the windscreen fixing after it chipped, and a new bumper after that deer decided to hop on my car. I still haven't called Autoglass repair, Autoglass replace... How do people do this?! Tell me! 
  3. I just don't enjoy it like I used to. I still enjoy parts of it, I love writing, I love taking photos of everyday life, and I love getting to know other bloggers. But trying to put it all together AND promote it, AND comment on others' blogs... I just don't know how to split my time. Not to mention the blogging community just isn't the same anymore, and if you're thinking "it's not the community, it's you" then you're probs one of the people excluding others and giving it a bad rep *insert sassy lady emoji here*.

All that means I have a lot less free time than I used to, and that free time is so precious. Blogging is a very solitary hobby and I'm surprisingly social for an anxious homebody. I want to spend my time playing Xbox or chatting with my partner or have a cuppa and a catch up with my mama, or a nice long soak in the bath. Running a blog can be a full-time job, and is a full-time job for many, or even a part-time job, but it's definitely not a job for me. It's a hobby so I spend time on it when I want to.
new nails | long weekend in Brum | pastel rain mac
new fave ear rings from Bhagat Jewels | new pastel jeans | all the converse
my new vintage creps | lights out for earth hour | a sunny day in Brighton

March was an OK month. I don't feel like I got much done, work was so full-on I was so shattered every evening and weekend I just needed to catch up on chores and rest. And now I'm ill so I'm trying to power rest before work tomorrow. I did do a bit more shopping... I mean, I'm earning now so why not!? AND I just got a raise soooo...imma treat myself some more!

I'm really into pastels again now its spring and I love mixing them with black and leopard print. I bought pastel jeans from ASOS which are waayy too big for me (fuck you Topshop for tricking me into thinking I'd gone up a size - no your jeans are just tiny!).

I also bought more vintage converse from Top Banana in Birmingham where they have shelves up to the ceiling surrounding a whole room full of converse. Dream. This is the second pair I've bought from there, now I have these leopard print and black ones and tye-dye ones.

I guess it wasn't such a bad month. I spent a long weekend in Birmingham, spent a day in Brighton, and read a lot of books. Here's to doing what I want, when I want.

Do you feel like the blogging community has changed?
How has your month been? 😊

Sunday, 5 March 2017

Happiness Lately

1. Valentine's Day pizza! I was going to order pizza as a surprise for me and M, lucky I didn't because he came home from work with two GIANT VEGAN CHEESY PIZZAS!! They were divine and actually took us about three days to eat!

2. Forgotten packages... I seem to be forgetting a lot lately, work is frazzling my brain. Anyway, I was sent these beautiful earrings by Bhagatjewels, an Etsy shop run by Sunita Singh. Everything is handmade, everything is unique, I will 100% be buying from here in the future. I love how many different options there are available, you deffo need to have a browse. And they are really decent quality, I've been wearing these more than any other earrings lately as they're comfy but not boring!

3. Hard work rewarded with a bottle of wine from my boss. Homework for the weekend: wine tasting!

4. Family visiting. My aunt, uncle, and their little rugrats were over from Ireland staying at my parents'. They're growing up too fast! Soon the oldest will have his first holy communion - I remember mine! And one of M's brothers has been down to stay at the flat for a few days too.

5. Shopping and treating myself. I ordered some new clothes in the ASOS sale, snagged a dank coat for £20, its black and pastel pink. My skin has been terrible lately so I picked up a few bits in Lush including a face mask which I'm currently wearing. It's so nice and cooling, waking me up for the chores that need doing this lazy Sunday! 

What's been making you happy lately? 😊

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Tuesday, 14 February 2017

The Legend of St Valentine

Remember when you were at school and every year around Valentine's day there'd be a big assembly and you'd hear the story of St Valentine and everything would be purple because according to my old RE teacher, purple is the colour of virtually every Christian holiday? At least... that's how I remember it. So, do you?

I don't hate Valentine's day, I only hate some aspects of it. The commercialism of it, how it encourages us to waste money on crap that we might not use, on bottles of wine and chocolates that are cheaper at any other time of year, not to mention all the fucking waste. I probs would have given up on it entirely if it wasn't for knowing the true story of St Valentine, and how Valentine's day came to be. I promise it's not like a boring history lesson.

Once upon a time, in a land far away (Rome), a very long ago, there lived a priest called Valentinus... aka Valentine of Rome. He was a Christian priest at a time when Roman paganism ruled in the form of Roman Emperor Claudius II. It is said that Emperor Claudius II tried to convert the Christian priest to Roman paganism, and interrogated him in person. Alas, t'was not to be, Valentine tried to convert the Emperor to Christianity. 

At the time, soldiers were banned from marrying as Emperor Claudius II believed married men did not make good soldiers (although, it's also said he encouraged his soldiers to take three or four women...). Valentine believed in love so strongly, he performed illegal marriages for these soldiers in secret. Supposedly, Valentine wore a purple amethyst ring, often worn by Christian bishops at the time, with an engraving of Cupid on it, a recognisable symbol associated with love that was legal under the Roman Empire. Roman soldiers would recognise the ring and ask him to perform a marriage for them.

One dark day, Valentine was discovered performing one of these secret marriages. He was thrown in jail and sentenced to death. Whilst waiting for death, Valentine came to know his jailer's daughter, a blind girl named Julia. Legend has it that he performed a miracle and Julia began to see again, which convinced her whole family of Jesus' existence and they were baptised and converted to Christianity. 

On the eve of Valentine's execution, he wrote a letter to Julia, signed 'Your Valentine'Valentine was buried in the Church of Praxedes in Rome, located near the cemetery of Saint Hippolytus. According to legend Julia herself planted a pink-blossomed almond tree near his grave.

Today,  the flower-crowned skull of Saint Valentine is exhibited in the Basilica of Santa Maria in Cosmedin, Rome. Other relics are found at Whitefriar Street Carmelite Church in Dublin, Ireland. People still make pilgrimages to both these sites.

And that is why we celebrate love on Valentine's Day. Are you doing anything special today? 😃 

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Tuesday, 7 February 2017

Instamonth #January2017

Life still feels so floopy at the mo, I really need everything to settle down a bit! I was going to post this earlier, when it was still January... buuut my brain decided to fuck with me and it's been rough lately so I kinda let everything slide.

Life isn't bad, life is pretty great really. So I keep beating myself up over falling apart. That's mental illness for you I guess. No matter how amazing your life is, mental health can fuck with you no matter what.
Mornings in the new flat | falafel wraps for lunch | long socks out again
My poor broken down car | I love leopard print | sunrise in Portsmouth 
Vinyl love | vegan pie and mash | frothy milky coffee

January felt like the longest month. So. Much. Happened. 

We moved into our flat right before New Years and are still settling in. We have the basics but keep realising we're missing ALL THE USEFUL THINGS! Like a sieve, or a sofa... 

As if I didn't have enough on my mind, ALL THE CAR DRAMA happened. All in the same fucking week. First, I hit a deer with my car which was fucking terrifying and I cried. The deer was fine, my nerves and car were not.  Later that week, the motor for my windscreen wipers decided to stop working in the middle of the snowstorm. I got soaked in snow trying to fix them, in the end a pick up truck came and saved me and my car and drove us aaallll the way home. 

I would have thought that that week would have made me lose it and spiral into negativity again, but somehow not, I brushed it off as life and carried on. There's no rhyme or reason to mental illnesses.

M and I went back to Portsmouth for a weekend, cramming everything we could into one day. We went back to our fave ever food place, Pie and Vinyl. They do the best vegan pies omg I was almost in tears I was so happy in that quirky, steamy little hodge podge room! We also snuck back into the student union for a couple of cheap pints with our still-in-date student cards! We caught up with our old housemate and best pal for a quick drink at a pub, then went to a house party for another pal's birthday, phew!

I'm trying to blog consistently, I swear, but work is getting busier every day, I don't usually feel like sitting at a computer screen when I come home too. Maybe when I have somewhere to sit that isn't in bed or the floor I'll feel more productive. Maybe.

How have you been lately?